Define "Love".......

You know so many times I hear the words "I love you". However, so many people are so unhappy in love. I sit and wonder what makes them unhappy in love. Well, what comes to my mind is that they have settle on the cards(love) that they have been dealt. I think so many people will avoid the strife of not having the love that they want if they clearly define what they think love is and live by that love. Some are in situations where they say "I love you" or "they love me" when it just does not seem right. You know why it does not seem right....because its not what you feel deep down as for as what love should be. I have been in situations thinking...I love you...OMG ....this is it...and low and behold after a few miss phone calls, no visits...I am asking myself...."Who was that somebody last week??" LOL...you know...it is what it is. You have to take things for what they are worth and so many times we try to make a situation more than what it actually is. That feeling of forever. Once I gave up that feeling of forever, life has never been so much better. Because I ended up lowering my standards and learning to live in the moment. The moment is right now. If I love that somebody right now...I am going to say...I LOVE YOU...and if tomorrow comes and that love is gone...ON TO THE NEXT. Tomorrow is not promise. We have to live in the moment and you know what....you have no control over the future ..therefore go with how you feel right now. The right now is all that you have. Why not take advantage of what you can do. Once you tap into the moment you can make a conscience decisiion on doing you. You know if you meet that somebody. And, that somebody turns you on physically however you do not know them personally. BUT, you are sexually attracted to them. If you can freak them down knowing you can get up without any emotional scars, GO FOR WHAT YOU KNOW. BUT, if you are feeling sexually and you know if you lay down with them and you are going to get up feeling EMPTY....PASS THEM BY!!!!! When we learn to set our expectations on our actions we will be better people as well as happier. And, there is no happiness like the one that you have worked so hard for as well as the one that you feel like you have deserved.